It's probably not what you think but I am a band wife. My husband is a member of the "Grand River Band" and that means he has gigs all over and I am at most of them. Some are fun, like the last 2 years at the "Buttermilk Jamboree" or their monthly gig at Fays in Charlotte, I get to see everyone and say hello. Others, like an outdoor festival when it's 110 degrees...not so much. Does your spouse play in a band, or act in theatre, play a sport or anything else that requires your support? Do you support them? I know I will be in the audience tonight tapping my toes to the tunes.